Our names are J & J. We have been married for almost 2 years this October. We've been together for nearly 10 years after we first met in 2002. One of the things we both have been passiionate about is to have children.
Little did we know until recently the outrageous costs associated with either adopting and/or surrogacy. We have decided to proceed with surrogacy given the legal complications and what not with adopting.
We chose to go with an agency for surrogacy after intensive research. We felt not only would we benefit from having a child or children through this agency but both the egg donor and the surrogate would also benefit from us participating with this agency. We have heard nothing but positive things about the agency we are utilziing.
The total costs involved with surrogacy (inclduing egg donor, surrogacy, agency fees, travel, and what not) is approximately 25k-30k. In a perfect world, if we could raise the neccessary funds, both of us could become biological fathers (which is our dreams) but we would gladly settle for one of us to become biological father. What matters is the opportunity to become fathers. The costs plus the reputation with the agency we are using were the deciding factors for us to proceed with this agency. The agency was kind enough to provide us with referrals whom we did contact and all said nothing but wonderful things about the agency.
In reality, all the support you helped contribute will go to our child(ren) that you helped us to have. One day we will share with our child(ren) that it was you that helped make it a reality. I also hope you understand our reasons to keep our personal information confidential due to the nature of society and for our child(ren) to have as much as a normal life in its' future.
Help us be able to one day hear from our child(ren), "I love you two!"
J & J